I am often asked, how it is I get what I want in my relationships. It is not very difficult, it starts with loving yourself first! And not being afraid of who you are and your expectations. After that, you must set a few rules for yourself, rules that you do not ever bend on.
A closed mouth does not get fed:
A woman should not be afraid to ask for what she wants, a man never is...
I can do bad all by myself:
A relationship with a man should be a step forward, never one of staying in the same place or God forbid, going backwards...
Set rules from day one, a man only does what you allow him to do:
It is important to let your expectations be known early, imposing rules later never works...
If he meets you and you are 5 stars how can he treat you like 2 stars?
Present yourself in the way you would like to be treated.
The man needs to take the initiative:
Sigh, what is more unattractive than a man
who cannot lead?
Respect is a must:
yourself and demand respect, plain and simple...
No lying, there is no such thing as “the little white lie”. Trust is very important!
Do not accept lies, nothing good happens
from there on...
If a man I meet is not someone I can expect to do the above then unfortunately, he is not the man for me.